女儿在超市发现一把宝剑，拿来拍拍照正好，哈哈，不过后来我觉得应该可以斜着拿剑的，哈哈~
去超市主要是为了找大白兔奶糖或者麦芽糖，准备把女儿那颗要掉的牙粘掉，哈哈~
这次我吃俄罗斯的这个冰淇淋，女儿吃梦龙，最近她比较喜欢吃梦龙了~
周三去吃夸父炸串，28-8，不过优惠后也花了接近三十，两个人都吃撑了~
前几天在蝴蝶号上看了一个30岁的男生的小视频，本来觉得他并不是很起眼的，而且还直接划过去了，但是又划回来了，想看看他到底在说什么。看了多几秒之后，我突然有点感动，甚至有点泪奔的感觉。他的视频内容是写给未来的夫人的一封信，到他的主页去看了下，也大多是他下班之后，夜色已深拍摄的视频，内容都是写给未来的夫人的，视频的点赞量非常的高，评论区网友们也纷纷留言，祝他找到另一半。这些平时“不婚不恋丁克”的年轻人们，此刻却在给另一个人打气，送鼓励送祝福，莫非是觉得自己得不到的，也许别人能得到？
这个博主也拿出最近比较火的巴菲特来说事，经过朋友的提醒，我发现巴菲特的感情经历并不简单，而且相对于那些一辈子一双人的夫妻而言，还是相当复杂的，他的一生结过两次婚，和三个女人有过纠缠。当然这里也说明，没有人的婚姻生活是一帆风顺的，如果目前人生已经经历过很多变数的朋友们， 似乎可以放下对过去的执念，敞开怀抱，开启新的生活。当然巴菲特的婚姻比起来那些结婚又离婚或者只生孩子不结婚的的国外富豪们而言，还是相当简单的，毕竟他的两段婚姻维持的时间都还是比较长的。
另外这个博主提到一个观点，听他的意思男人也是需要爱的，还说如果男人有爱自己的人就不会那么拼命的证明自己，这怎么和我看到的大部分的帖子不一样呢？大部分帖子的观点是男人没有爱，哈哈~ 感觉这个博主有点真实了，起码没有那么装。他还在自己生日那天请假回家，请妈妈吃饭，并拍成了视频，这小伙是真的打算把他的现在展现给他未来的夫人了呢，确实会有不少女生担心自己未来的老公是妈宝男，这个博主并没有避开这个环节，而是展示了家庭现状，我想如果有真的欣赏这个博主的女生，应该会和他联系的。
当然希望不是杀猪盘，毕竟网络上各种事情都有。我想想这个博主目前可以做一个“求偶”为内容的蝴蝶号，以后找到“夫人”了，可以做成情侣相处视频，以后结婚生娃了，可以做成亲子带娃视频，哇塞，这个博主还真是自媒体高手呀！然后接广告，挣米，从此走上人生巅峰，哈哈哈，此时，我嘴巴都笑歪了，虽然不是我未来的某某某，挣多少米跟我也没有半毛钱关系。最重要的是，我竟然忘了关注他了，哈哈~ 这就有点不“道德”了，毕竟还看了人家好几个视频呢。这也给了年轻单身一个启发：勇敢的人先享受世界。
这句话最近好像比较流行，起码我在各个不同的地方都看到过好几次了。为此，我也想要不拉个群，给我们蜂巢的单身用户们也谋划一下相亲？如果说挣钱，大家都担心镰刀，似乎钱不多也并不积极，但是说到脱单，我看积极的人不少，至少目前进群的好多人都是我不认 识的，不知道从哪里来的，又或者是我在各个群里发了二维码之后，扫码进群的，又或者是别人转发的。一个朋友跟我说，如果他脱单了，他要大大的感谢我，所以我在想要不弄个海外交友群？这样似乎会更方便脱单呀，毕竟在国内生活久了的人会不适应国外，而在国外太久的，有可能不适应国内呢。
English translation by AI for someone who is interested in my post but from other countries:
A few days ago, I saw a short video on Butterfly (蝴蝶号) of a 30-year-old man. At first, I didn’t think much of him and almost swiped past it, but something made me swipe back to see what he was actually saying. After watching for a few more seconds, I suddenly felt touched—almost to the point of tears. The content of his video was a letter to his future wife. I visited his profile and found that most of his videos were filmed late at night after work. All of them were addressed to his future wife. His videos had very high engagement, and many people left encouraging comments, wishing him well in finding his partner. It was heartwarming to see even the usual “anti-marriage, anti-dating, DINK” crowd cheering him on—maybe it’s because they believe that even if they can't have it, perhaps someone else can.
This content creator also mentioned Warren Buffett, who’s been trending lately. After being reminded by a friend, I realized Buffett's relationship history isn’t simple. Compared to couples who stay together for life, his personal life was relatively complicated—he was married twice and had relationships with three different women. But this also shows that no one’s marriage is perfect. If you've been through a lot in life, maybe it’s time to let go of the past and open yourself up to new possibilities. Compared to other wealthy Westerners who marry, divorce, or even have children without getting married, Buffett’s relationships were actually quite stable—both of his marriages lasted a long time.
The creator also shared an interesting perspective: he believes that men need love too. He said that if a man has someone who truly loves him, he wouldn't feel the need to prove himself so desperately. This is quite different from many posts I’ve seen, which often claim that men are incapable of love—haha. This guy seemed genuine, at least not putting on an act. He even took a day off on his birthday to go home and treat his mother to a meal, and he turned it into a video. It seems like he’s genuinely trying to show his present self to his future wife. Many women are understandably concerned that their future husband might be a "mama’s boy,” but instead of hiding it, this creator openly showed his family situation. I think if there’s a woman out there who truly appreciates him, she might get in touch.
Of course, let’s hope it’s not a scam—there’s all kinds of stuff on the internet. Still, this creator might actually have what it takes to build a successful account based on "finding a life partner" as his main theme. Once he finds his “wife,” he could shift to making couple videos, and later family/parenting content. Wow, he might just be a self-media expert in the making! Then comes sponsorships and making real money—on his way to the top! Haha, at this point, I was grinning so hard my mouth was crooked. Even though he’s not my future someone, and how much money he makes has nothing to do with me, I still found it amusing. What’s funny is that I forgot to follow him—oops! Not very “ethical” of me, considering I watched several of his videos. But hey, this also serves as a reminder for young singles: the brave get to enjoy the world first.
This phrase has been pretty trendy lately—I’ve seen it pop up in multiple places. So now I’m thinking, maybe I should start a group chat and organize a matchmaking event for our single users in the Hive CN community? When it comes to making money, people are usually wary of being scammed and aren’t too motivated, especially if the rewards aren’t high. But when it comes to dating, I see a lot more enthusiasm! At least right now, many people in the group are total strangers to me—I have no idea where they came from. Maybe they scanned the QR code I shared in different groups, or maybe someone else forwarded it.
One of my friends even told me that if he finds a partner through this, he’ll be forever grateful to me. So now I’m wondering—why not create an international dating group? It might make it easier for people to find love. After all, those who’ve lived in China for a long time may struggle to adapt abroad, and those who’ve been abroad for too long might not easily fit back into life in China.
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